Mum and G cooked and bought a lot of food, to repay the deities.
Brought tears as I remembered how we conducted our da ri zi in the past 13 years.
I would wake up, eat bf and made coffee with last night hot water. Cos he would brew tea. He then spent the whole morning making tea while I made myself using, arranging the furnitures, taking out the utensils and plastic bags, and stools.
Then I will dabao simple fare for him. He usually has no appetite.
Then our 明坛 members ah keong, yun qing, yaba, their 2 sons, sometimes lampei...lao go ye, would gather.
We would quickly put the dishes in place. Then the rituals start. He lit the incense and we took turns to pay respects.
Then we go into the room.
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