Monday, November 2, 2026

no more expensive bag

I recently bought a japanese lacey display bag. It is girly and definitely not for an auntie like me but i could not care less.

My primary purpose was to showcase the demon slayers badges and keychains.

Then i realised i need to give away 3 of my bags as i no longer use them. Mainly because I got myself a 80 bucks carlo rino bag tt is actually quite spacious and had been using it since july till now, 4 months. Rest of my bags just collecting dust.

Sunday, November 1, 2026

swimming

I graduated from swimming last thursday under my female coach. I only had 10 lessons under her and she said i alreasy knew how to swim.

Now is only refining and increasing my stamina on my own. 

Sunday, October 25, 2026

a sign

I remembered feeling very anxious about the vet 13k bill. then i wrote down my plan to transfer rm to sgd.

the rm was a gift from mum. she gave me 300k rm because she felt tt she did not leave anything for me. so the 300k rm was her gift.

i will use 80k of this to fund lily expenses. i was thinking tt mum will get the 功德. immediately tt night, i dreamt she passed on. 

ys said tt dreaming of living passing, means the person will live long. A q 精神. may the 功德 go to my mum.

Thursday, October 22, 2026

think about 13k versus what other lost to scam

getting money anxiety after knowing I need to fork out 13k for lily cataract.

i ruminated over it but i got a plan on how to fund it. convert my idle rm to sgd and pay for it.

compare this to what people have lost 300k for a person I was watching, arising from the takeshi scammer.

those who are battling cancer, kidney failure forking out tens of thousands a month

lily cataract

Today i brought lily to see the eye vet. Initially was already thinking will pay 7k for both eyes. But the bill is 9-13k range. Got to prep to pay and pay.

Strategize to use my rm to change to sgd daily 830sgd for next 2 weeks.

Although i can do nothing but since i am capable of paying for this, i decided to go ahead. Regardless it will be a long term thingy for lily as there will be followups for life after this.

What i didnt do for xb, i 连本带利do for lily. No regrets.

Today vet bill 600

Sunday, October 18, 2026

Moving house - no chance

I went to check, based on my current pay of 2800 gross, how much loan could i take. 

Drum roll .... around 148k

How could i afford another flat with 148k. It definitely made me 死心.

Just no way

So dun ever think abt tt

Saturday, October 17, 2026

Mark lee talk show

MBS sand threatre
17 Oct 8pm

I went with G to this show. Got a tix at 48. We set off at 3pm for dinner at olive vines, i ate a salted egg yolk with rice set with cake and a coffee for 13.90. Shiok

Then we walked briefly around marina square. Then we went to MBS.

Walked around and finally got into the threatre. The show was enjoyable, i was engaged for 2hrs. No hp.

Abit of laughter but it was enjoyable.

Hehe this is our 4th show - phantom of the opera, 972 two dramas and this one.

no more expensive bag