We came early 9plus.
Last rites include circling his coffin - managed to hold back tears. Tears are not good in taoist rites.
Was tearing but when sending off the car, cant controll my tears. Was told to sit at the front, was tearing all the way to mandai. There, we had to wait for a while before we could go in.
Finally the sendoff, was trying to control my tears cos it was important to tell LG to get out of his body before going to the fire chamber. His sister was hysterical and wailing so loudly that i was affected. But i recovered and concentrate on telling him to leave.
After that, went to change out of our clothes.
Throughout, his younger daughter ky didnt cry. The elder one was inconsolable. I was pissed with them. They did not reply to LG pleas for them to visit him. After his discharge, only ky came once to see him in icu, once at our place. After that, no messages from them. Broke LG heart. Anyway I didnt want to have anything to do with them after the funeral.
Took the chartered bus back
to sin ming. When we returned, the place was already setup for a new person. Had lunch at the sin ming coffeeshop with ah keong and yq family. His siblings and relatives were seated in another table. Couldnt care too much and we left after eating.
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